| What you said was: | "I don't respect women who don't respect themselves." |
| What you meant was: | "I and society as a whole hold women up to ridiculous respectability standards directly relating to the "purity" of said women while hypersexualizing them at the same time and if you are a woman and don't fit my awkward monolith of criteria then I refuse to acknowledge your humanity." |
| What I heard was: | "Hi I'm a misogynist piece of shit, please punch me in my face." |
I had literally the craziest week in hospital. I learnt a lot from semi-watching television in an anxious daze with a HIV infected, homosexual, ex-junkie on methadone whilst eating monte carlos out of a rubber glove and discussing the most difficult points of our lives.